It is hard to believe that it is already halfway through 2019! Now is a great time to look at your relationship and decide how you can enrich it and deepen your intimacy. This month we suggest that you return to actively dating again.
Together, talk about the things you did together when you first began dating. What did you do that you loved? Using this information, make a Date Night Jar. Place the suggestions into the jar. At least once per month, pull a Date Night out of the jar and do it!
Each of you take one week and plan a date based on an activity you know your partner would love to do. Make this something that they may not expect. It does not have to be anything you have a strong desire to do, but you know it will make your partner incredibly happy. This shows that you are paying attention to their interests and want to make them happy.
One week plan a date together. Talk about what you want to do, something you have not done together in a long time. This can be fun, out of the box sort of activity or something very romantic.
Remember dates do not have to be expensive. You can make this activity budget friendly or extravagant. This allows you to reconnect and return to paying attention to your relationship.
This is the perfect time to plan an evening picnic after a hectic day at work. A nice walk with the dog after a busy day gives you time to reconnect. A glass of wine or a beer on the deck is another wonderful way to slow down, pay attention to your relationship and simply be together.
Life is super busy! We must plan and make time for the things that are important to us. When you first met and fell in love, you made time to be together. Some couples had to drive hours in order to do dinner or a movie together. Don’t let the familiarity of the relationship prevent you from doing the things that you know keeps the spice and love in your relationship.
We can help you find other ways to be sure to keep your relationship on track. We do limit the number of couples we work with in order to meet their needs, so don’t delay! Be one of the few and the fortunate who can benefit from our years of experience and training in relationships! Call us today to schedule a time to talk about our Relationship Coaching Program and how it can help your relationship deepen and grow. 336-937-0890